Learn From What You Go Through

I’ve moved schools five times, towns four, and states three. I’m no stranger to meeting new people, and I’m a master organizer (you learn that after the second time of having to fit your whole life into a few boxes). Some might think moving that many times must be really difficult, and while there have been plenty of tough moments, I’m honestly so grateful for all the places I’ve gotten to be. Plus, there’s lots of people who have moved way more times. I’ve learned that each tough situation produces so many valuable lessons and each place has taught me so many things about people, mindset, God, and the agriculture industry. While there are so many lessons I could share from moving, I want to highlight three of the main things I’ve been able to take with me in hopes that you can find value in these lessons, too. 

Mindset Matters. There were a few times when I let my thoughts about moving become super negative. I was mad about leaving my friends, I was sad I had to leave key parts of my life behind, I was frustrated that I kept having to pick my life up and start new somewhere else, I was worried about finding a new church, and many other bad emotions. While these are all completely normal and understandable feelings to have, there were a couple times when I let these feelings dictate my outlook on everything. Where your mental focus is has such an impact on your whole life, so it’s very important that you have a good mindset. Through moving I’ve been able to learn how to have a refreshed and positive outlook on life. I see opportunities in every situation and I’m excited for every new adventure. It’s allowed me to push through the hard times and I’ve been able to apply my better perspective everywhere. Your mindset plays a vital part in every aspect of your life, and you have the choice as to what kind of mindset it is.

Take that extra step. I’ve always been an extrovert, so interacting with people is something I’ve consistently found a lot of joy in. However, there’s always moments, especially in new places, where I feel nervous to interact with others and try to make friends. I hate to admit it, but I care a lot about what other people think about me, so trying to meet people after moving has always been kind of nerve racking because I want people to like me. What I’ve learned, though, is that you just need to take that extra step. You should say hi to someone, but then continue the conversation. Maybe compliment them or ask them about something you think is personal to them. Always put the effort in to show you want to be talking to them and that you care about making a valuable connection. Even if the connection doesn’t work out or you don’t really talk to them again, you’ll be happy you at least tried. Also, the next time you talk to someone will be a little less scary. 

Agriculture is everywhere and plays a vital part in every state. I’ve been connected to the agriculture industry since I can remember. When I lived in Tennessee I owned and showed horses for 12 years, I lived on a horse farm my last year there, and I was heavily involved in 4-H. When I moved to Pennsylvania I did, unfortunately, have to sell my horses, but I got to live on another farm. There, we raised sheep, cows, pigs, and chickens. Sadly, since moving to Indiana I haven’t gotten to live on a farm or own livestock, but I have been able to work on two different farms and I’m still involved with 4-H. What I’ve learned through each state is that agriculture is universal. Most people within the ag industry know this, but it’s been super cool to experience first-hand how it shows up in different states. Moving has definitely helped me really grow my passion and love for this industry because I’ve gotten to see how much it expands and impacts everyone. When you genuinely understand the impact ag has on so many people, schools, towns, states, industries, and countries you can truly appreciate it. 

We all experience hard situations in life, moving included, but there is always something you can learn from what you go through. It may take some time to see the lessons, but they are there. I really hope the things I learned through my situation help you through yours. If you are dealing with a tough time and need some advice, or just some comfort, please feel free to reach out to me or any of the other officers! I love each of y’all and I’m so grateful I get to serve this district. 

-Ellie Taylor, District V Reporter